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Dating Advice for Women

Virtual Date Ideas for Long Distance Relationships That Actually Bring You Closer
Let’s be honest.Most virtual date ideas you find online sound cute in theory but fall apart in real life. Bake the same dessert together.Take a virtual museum tour.Make a vision board. That’s not how real couples bond. When you’re in a long distance relationship, you...

Should You Make the First Move or Wait For Him? The Truth About Mixed Signals and French Romance
Female24 years oldFrenchHi,Thank you for taking the time to read my question! I’m from Europe and right now I’m living in France, in Bordeaux.I don’t want to brag, but I’m quite good-looking (I think it’s important for the story :/), and as you may know, in France,...

Why He’s Not Talking to You After an Argument (And What It Really Means)
Female35 years oldAfricanWhat does it mean when a guy stops talking to you after an argument, even when I try to reach out to him?All right, let’s not overcomplicate something that’s actually very simple. If a guy gets mad during an argument and then completely stops...
Relationship Advice

Do I back off? I need some advice badly…
I could really use honesty. My husband and I have been together for 13 years married 7 this December. We have 2 small children together ages 6 and 7 and I have 2 older. 1 out of the house the other 15 (female). We have always had a loving relationship, supportive....

I want to know why he seems so interested in me?
Dear last honest guy, My husband and I have been married for three years and our each others firsts for many things and high school sweethearts. He joined the air force right out of high school in 2007 and we ended up stationed in Montana married at 18 & 19...

Question from an Indian House wife
mere husband aksar late night party karte hai.jis se main behad pareshan rahti hu.ek baar jab kaafi nashe me the,kuch behad buri bate bad bada rahe the.unhe hosh nahi tha.kapde adhe khule the.maine pyar se unhe confidence me liya aur pucha,to bataya ki wo regularly...
Sex & Attraction

Is it a surprise to find your man cheating when you refuse to put out?
Today I present you a guest post from a good friend of mine, Chrystal Rose from http://www.xtalrose.com. Together we tackle this question and present you the point of view of both a female and a male. Female: Well that’s an easy question: A surprise? No. This is men...

I’m not horny anymore, let’s just get married!
Today I happened to have the misfortune of listening to something that really disturbed me and got me thinking. As I was flipping through my radio stations I came across the Dr. Turkey-neck show and listen to a young woman who was calling to get advice from her. She...

My ex has another girlfriend but says he wants to be with me
Q: Hi, I’m 19 and I need help getting over an ex. We went to the same high school and were friends all four years and were dating for the past three years of my life. In March of this year my best friend told me that she was talking to a mutual friend of ours who I...
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Relationship Advice… why?
So, the title of this post seems a little bit weird. The reason I'm writing this post is simply to tell all of you why I give relationship advice which by the way it's also free. A lot of what I'm going to tell you guys can be found in my about page of this website....
Latest Posts
How to Tell if Your Long-Time Guy Friend Wants to Take Things Further
Hi, I’ve known this guy for years, and recently we’ve started talking a lot more. We’ve both liked each other at different times in the past, but the timing was never right. Now, it feels different, but I can’t tell if he’s just being friendly or if he wants more, especially given our ten-year friendship. He recently bought me flowers, and last night he called me gorgeous, saying he’s always thought so. But he hasn’t asked me out, and I’m unsure of his intentions. It’s been a while since I dated anyone, and I’ve never dated a friend, so I’m confused. Any advice? Thanks!
Stuck in a Sexless Relationship? Here’s How to Handle It When He’s Just Not Into Intimacy
I’m in a relationship that’s become completely sexless, and I’m at my breaking point. My boyfriend and I have been together since April 2022, and while things started off with mutual attraction, our sex life quickly fizzled out. After our first amazing time together, we went six weeks without intimacy. When I brought it up, he brushed it off as just ‘the way he is.’ But the gaps kept growing. We went seven months without sex, and despite my telling him I need more frequency, nothing’s changed.
He says he doesn’t want a relationship but acts as he does. I’m confused!
Q: I reconnected with an ex from college and we have started a casual friends with benefits situation. He lives in another state about 4 hours away so we always have to plan when we see each other in advance. I am open to the possibility of something more...
Should I just move on?
Q: Hi, so there’s this guy that messages me and initiates most of our conversations. He is really nice to me, respectful, and a sweetheart. I’m just not sure if he wants to date or I’m not sure? I ask him to go out and have lunch and he’s always busy. I flirt with him...
Is it time to move on or am I overreacting?
Q: My boyfriend of 2.5 years is 38 years old. I met him on eharmony. When we met, I liked him but wasn't 100% sure about him. He had some undesirable traits in a mate. He was divorced and the nature and reasoning he gave me for the divorce didn't seem that terrible....
I am not sure if he likes me
Q: Hello, I recently met a guy about month ago through a mutual friend's birthday party. I was instantly attracted to him. That night we danced a lot but we didn't get to talk much. About 2 weeks later we all went out again in a group to a bar. When he got there...
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