by The Last Honest Guy
Women sometimes wonder why men make certain assumptions about them when they first meet in person after hooking up via an online dating website. Often the explanation has to do with very minor details (subtleties) contained in the woman’s online dating profile. The tiniest details may seem insignificant to the woman writing the profile, yet can be interpreted quite differently by us men.
I’ve seen a ton of online dating profiles. Some are well-written, others are not at all. There are really four parts to pay keen attention to when a woman is writing her profile:
1) Your Screen Name
2) Your Catch Phrase
3) The wording of the profile itself
4) The photos you post of yourself (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
Me and my good friend of 7/8 years have always had a good friendship. After a year we started messing around nothing serious just for fun sometimes. We have a good friendship just would happen to fool around once in a while. I can’t say that it was just about sex because we would do more than that we are just good friends. He has a girlfriend he got with her maybe 2/3 months after he and I became friends they have 2 kids now.
I’m in a relationship with my son’s father (whom my friend has no respect for and I don’t know why). We (my boyfriend & I ) have a lot of history and at a certain point we were separated for a couple years and recently ( a little over a year ago ) rekindled our relationship and I’m very happy. But since I got back in this relationship my friend
seems to be acting differently.
He calls and drives by my house at all hours of the day and night and he lives on the other side of town… he also has no problem putting down my relationship when he don’t even know my boyfriend at all. He don’t even like for me to talk about my boyfriend in anyway. I really don’t know why he’s acting this way? because for 1. I’m not his type, so I never thought he would want more or could see me more than being just friends because he already had someone. I really can’t pinpoint what’s going on in his head because him doing these things are somewhat new to me.
I’ll admit that maybe after a year or two of always being around each other that I grew feelings for the kid but knowing he was involved I had to shake it off . I came to a point where I did want more but I knew it wouldn’t happen and that I’d always come in last. So after a while it was nothing to me and I felt like we had a great friendship and I didn’t want to mess it up.
Then I get back in this relationship and I told him ( my friend ) that I wanted to be faithful….. after a while I stopped talking to him and I even ignored his calls and 8 months past and he still hit me up not really care if I’m with my boyfriend or not.
Sometimes he just stops by my house unexpectedly, don’t call, just shows up! He calls me from random numbers or even blocked. He hunted me down once, calling my step-mom’s phone driving to my fathers and step-mother’s home looking for me. He went to my house when I wasn’t home. He found me one morning when he came to my mother’s house out of the blue, it was just random! He looked like he just woke up like didn’t wash his face, still in his pj’s, wearing crops with no socks on. I know him so well that I wouldn’t think he was crazy or anything like that. I just called him a crack head and laughed about it….
But really honestly what do you think is the real reason why my friend would do these things? do you think he’s trying to mess up my relationship?
There’s sooo much more but I don’t want to go on and on… so from what I’ve told you, do u think you know? (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
My boyfriend lectures. Sometimes he can’t just talk to me, he turns into a cop (his job) and starts in on a lecture and he repeats himself over and over even though I say, I get it. I’m 39 (he’s 45) and I hate being lectured. I’m a grown ass woman. I try to be patient, but eventually I just need to either walk away or we’re going to fight.
I don’t get what he wants from me. Do I really need to stand there and listen to his lectures? We get into the worst fights; no yelling and screaming, just no talking, which I hate hate hate. (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
It often happens that women want to give a guy a gift for whatever the special occasion happens to be but the problem is that women have a hard time thinking about a good gift. This is actually a relatively easy task to do and it’s not that hard. Unfortunately, women repeatedly give a guy the wrong gift, either because they’re too lazy to think of a good one or because they simply don’t know.
Luckily for all you ladies out there, I’ve come up with four simple things you should NEVER give a guy: (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
Hello, there… I’m 43 years old and I’m not so great in reading men. I’m so bad at it, I lost a male friend of 7 yrs. thinking we’re nothing more than friends. We always exchanged gifts for the holidays’ b’days, hung out… nothing fancy always a casual setting. He did say once I was a good woman… I don’t know what those terms mean when it comes from a Man. Such as the guy I’ve been dating for the last 3 yrs -who has said I’m sweet and he thinks the world of me… again what does that mean? And this kissing on the forehead (what am I 2 yrs old). You see, when a man flirts with me, I don’t take much value in what they say… sorry, I don’t.
Please tell me how to tell if a guy is being real or playing, I don’t want to hurt anyone I care about. I feel horrible I, lost this friend for life. I wish I knew how he really felt.
I’ve also been dating another guy, I would say on and off, and when I used those words to him, or say something on the lines he has lost interest in me, he’s says I’m wrong. However, I will say… if I ask him to do something with me other than sex… he does, it may not be right away, yet he does. So, what’s his deal, why is he staying around, for play or is there something more?
Thnx (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
Can you tell a difference between a male and a female penguin?
The only way I can tell who is who is because the male is spanking the ass of the female penguin. On the other hand, the female is curiously preoccupied with “her” genitals which leads me to believe that it might be a male after all.
Chances are you can’t. And neither can I?
How come both male and female penguins look pretty much identical?
Any time there is a species that shares equally in rearing of the offspring, both male and female look identical.
Whenever that’s not the case, species tend to develop differences in the way they look because the division of labor (rearing of the offspring) is NOT equally distributed. (more…)
