by The Last Honest Guy
Well, I need some help here because I am really confused…
I like a guy at work…I see him every day and from the different things he does or says (glances, smiles etc) I think that there is a chance he likes me too but you never know for sure…He is 35 and single. He is an average looking guy but with a strong personality and he is also very sociable and humorous. I noticed that even though he is really comfortable talking to and teasing other girls at work, he is not that comfortable when he talks about me or to me! Sometimes I wonder if he does this because he finds me boring…However, he has made it clear many times that he likes me as a person and even said once that I am the best in everything without specifying what ‘everything’ includes! Many times, I may turn to him unexpectedly and catch him looking at me. For example, he may make a joke that has nothing to do with me at all and I turn to look at him and laugh at the joke and I notice that he had already been looking at me!
The other day, I was out with a male friend of mine. We were just having drinks and having a great time like I would do with any female friend of mine. I do not think that someone would think we were a couple…The guy I like was also there but not too close to us. By the way, he knows that I do not have a boyfriend. I pretended that I did not see him but I could see from the corner of my eye that he was watching us. My male friend also told me that he was watching both of us. I was waiting to see if he would come to say hi, but since he did not come, after a while I decided to go talk to him. 90% of the times he talks to me he is smiling and in general he is a happy person especially when he is out. But that night, he looked really serious. When we said hi, he said he had seen me a while ago. I told him that I just saw him and asked him why he didn’t come talk to me, he said that he did not come because I was ‘busy’. I said ‘really? with what?’ and he replied ‘with a male…’! After a moment of silence, I did not know what to say, I lost my words and after some seconds I replied ‘yes, with my best friend’. He did not reply and I said ‘I have to go now, bye’ and left. How do you explain his behavior? Was he jealous or was it just an excuse for not coming to say hi?
The next day at work, I did not mention anything about what happened and he teased me about going for drinks really late that night… Over the following days, I tried to show him that what happened that night did not affect my behavior and actually I felt that we came closer. We talked more and teased each other more. But that was just for some days.
Lately, I feel that we grew even more apart. I started feeling awkward and really nervous around him and there are some times where he has the chance to talk to me but he does not. I do not know how to act any more and I do not know what to believe. Did he understand something about my feelings and decided to avoid me or does he feel the same and is confused?
Do you think he has feelings for me?
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by The Last Honest Guy
So I’m in a pretty sticky situation. I’ve been seeing this guy who is in an open relationship with his gf. She lives a few states away for college. We just started as friends, and having sex. Things were going awesome. After a while of hanging out, and making out we fell in love. We both care about each other deeply. He loves his gf. I don’t know what to do. We click so well. I would go as far to say that he could very well be the one for me. Any advice?
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by The Last Honest Guy
So, a few days ago I wrote an article where I gave you 13 Gift Ideas for Men this Christmas and so I realized that some of us may be on a budget this holiday season.
For that reason, I figured I would give those of you on a budget, 10 Christmas Gift Ideas for Men Under $100. Some of you may also want to use this list and buy 2 or 3 items from the list and make it seem like you’re giving him a lot more presents than just one big expensive one. In addition, some of the items listed below are also more affordable alternatives to the items I gave you in my prior list.
The following list is also good for guy friends and boyfriends who you don’t really want to buy something really expensive for. Sometimes when you begin a relationship and give a big gift from the start it can be a bad thing. You might be setting the bar too high and then feel like you always have to top the prior gift with something even bigger and better next time. I wouldn’t recommend it. This list can be ideal for such situation.
So let’s begin;
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by The Last Honest Guy
Dear Last Honest Guy,
I have been going out with this guy of a different culture. I know the certainties — that I am walking into heartbreak territory. His culture is quite clannish and so is my religion. Yet despite that, I am drawn to him. We have mutual liking for each other.
We agreed to keep it casual. Just not to over think it. But I can’t help it. I realize I regard things differently as he does. I am fighting a battle between my heart and my head.
We talked this morning. And we have settled things. I think I made the right choice as to define the rules this early on. It is just so hard to fight this growing attraction I have for him. I am afraid I would get too emotionally attached when all we agreed on is being casual.
I told him we are just friends who enjoy each other’s company. Hence, no hugs, no kisses, etc, He is a really good guy but what I am certain is that he isn’t the one. Just because we are impossible from the get go.
Please let me know your thoughts.
It would be in my best interest to just sever it right?
Fighting a battle,
Me
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by The Last Honest Guy
My boyfriend wants to video tape me giving him oral pleasure. I’m afraid that if I don’t he might go to some other female for his kinkiness. What do you advise me to do?
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by The Last Honest Guy
Ok, so Christmas is around the corner and you’re still having a hard time thinking of a good gift for your boyfriend, husband, or guy you like.
Well, I’m going to make it easy for you and give you 13 gift ideas for your man this Christmas. The following gifts are gifts that I can guarantee almost every guy will enjoy or want. These are all things we all dream of having and makes a perfect gift for us.
I will give you the main specs to look for when buying these products that will make you look like a pro when you give your man these gifts. He will be blown away and amazed on how knowledgeable you are when it comes to buying the perfect gadgets and gifts for him this Christmas.
So let’s start;
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