If he’s acting cold, distant, or inconsistent in your long-distance relationship, you’re not imagining it. Here’s the honest male perspective on why men pull away — and what you should do next.

Female33 years oldCaucasianI reconnected with an ex from college, and we’ve started a casual friends-with-benefits situation. He lives in another state about four hours away, so we always have to plan our meetups in advance. I’m open to the possibility of something...

I’m from Europe and right now I’m living in France, in Bordeaux.
I don’t want to brag, but I’m quite good-looking (I think it’s important for the story :/), and as you may know, in France, sleeping around is a normal thing.

What does it mean when a guy stops talking to you after an argument, even when I try to reach out to him?

Let’s start with the truth most people don’t want to hear. If you can avoid a long-distance relationship, don’t be in one. Yeah, I said it. You can trust him, love him, pray over him, manifest him, whatever…A long-distance relationship with a man is still a terrible...