I’m 51 and I’ve been dating a newly divorced man. He’s only been divorced for 3 months and although been out on dates, I’m the first he’s dated for any length of time (about 6 weeks) We have spent nights together and done pretty much everything except have actual intercourse. He says he told himself he was not doing that for at least 3 months. I don’t get it because essentially we have been having other forms of sex. Any ideas as to what’s going on?

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You didn’t mentioned the age of the man but i’m assuming that he’s close in age to you. With that said I think a man that has been out of “The Game” for this long can be a bit insecure and nervous about himself in the bedroom. I would say it’s probably a similar feeling to being a teenager and being with a woman for the first time.  The best thing to do here is respect his wishes and wait another 6 weeks until he’s ready. In the event that you reach this point and he is still not wanting to go all the way with you, I would have a conversation with him about it and be prepare to leave him if he’s still doesn’t want any intercourse. That would be kind of weird.

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