3 reasons why a mature man will not make a move on you

3 reasons why a mature man will not make a move on you

 

Hello, there… I’m 43 years old and I’m not so great in reading men. I’m so bad at it, I lost a male friend of 7 yrs. thinking we’re nothing more than friends. We always exchanged gifts for the holidays’ b’days, hung out… nothing fancy always a casual setting. He did say once I was a good woman… I don’t know what those terms mean when it comes from a Man. Such as the guy I’ve been dating for the last 3 yrs -who has said I’m sweet and he thinks the world of me… again what does that mean? And this kissing on the forehead (what am I 2 yrs old). You see, when a man flirts with me, I don’t take much value in what they say… sorry, I don’t.

 

Please tell me how to tell if a guy is being real or playing, I don’t want to hurt anyone I care about. I feel horrible I, lost this friend for life. I wish I knew how he really felt.

 

I’ve also been dating another guy, I would say on and off, and when I used those words to him, or say something on the lines he has lost interest in me, he’s says I’m wrong. However, I will say… if I ask him to do something with me other than sex… he does, it may not be right away, yet he does. So, what’s his deal, why is he staying around, for play or is there something more?

 

Thnx (more…)

Humans Are Not Penguins and Other Relationship Facts You might Not Know

Humans Are Not Penguins and Other Relationship Facts You might Not Know

Can you tell a difference between a male and a female penguin?

The only way I can tell who is who is because the male is spanking the ass of the female penguin. On the other hand, the female is curiously preoccupied with “her” genitals which leads me to believe that it might be a male after all.

Chances are you can’t. And neither can I?

How come both male and female penguins look pretty much identical?

Any time there is a species that shares equally in rearing of the offspring, both male and female look identical.

Whenever that’s not the case, species tend to develop differences in the way they look because the division of labor (rearing of the offspring) is NOT equally distributed. (more…)

Is my ex trying to make me jealous? – Relationship Advice

Is my ex trying to make me jealous? – Relationship Advice

My ex started to “hang out” with his ex after he broke up with me. I don’t understand this sort of behavior because we did didn’t end it on bad terms but I feel like he’s doing this to purposely piss me off. During the relationship his ex messaged him to get together but he passed it off cause he was in a relationship and didn’t want to make things complicated. Right after we broke up from a relationship of 2 years he goes to a party where this ex gf of his is at and starts talking to her a lot after. He brought her to one of my best friend’s clothing store and knew that friend would text me about it (and he did in the end). Fast forward to a few months later they are now on vacation together and he posted a picture of him and her and I don’t know if they’re dating. Why would a guy do this? Is it purposely to get my attention and make me mad? (more…)

Relationship Advice… why?

Relationship Advice… why?

So, the title of this post seems a little bit weird. The reason I’m writing this post is simply to tell all of you why I give relationship advice which by the way it’s also free. A lot of what I’m going to tell you guys can be found in my about page of this website. However, looking at the stats of my site I realize that not very many people take the time to read it. It’s understandable, we’re all really busy. Really I’m just thankful that you at least take the time to read some of my post.

As this site continues to grow, I feel it’s necessary to remind all my loyal readers and the new ones why I do this.

So, what’s the real reason I like and enjoy giving free relationship advice? (more…)

Why men and women can’t understand each other

You often hear both men and women saying things like; “I just can’t understand him/her”. The truth is, the old saying men are from Mars and women from Venus has a lot of truth in it. That’s because at times it does seem like they are from completely different planets. One thinks one thing while the other thinks another. Sometimes it seems like men and women can never be on the same page. The bad news (not really) is that somehow we need to figure out how to co-exist and live together. But why is it that we can’t seem to understand each other? (more…)

How long should you wait to start dating again after a break up?

How long should you wait to start dating again after a break up?

People seems to always come up with different “rules” on how long someone should wait after a break up. Some say, at least 6 months if you were in a serious (years) relationship. Others come up with ridiculous time frames that have absolutely no rational reasons behind them. Often people simply seem to think is disrespectful to the other person if you start dating right away after you break up with them. And others will criticize you if you start dating right away when someone breaks up with you and say things like; “I guess she didn’t really love him that much, looks at her she’s already going on dates”. (more…)

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