So, you’ve decided to write a love letter to your boyfriend. Good for you! But let’s be real—if you do this wrong, it’ll end up sounding like something from a bad rom-com, and we both know no guy wants to read that. A great love letter isn’t about being poetic or...

I’ve been chatting with a guy online for nine months. We’ve been intimate over video calls, he calls me beautiful, and we spend hours talking with loads of emails every day. The issue is, he’s been divorced for two years and says he’s not ready for a relationship. He has two grown daughters and lives in the U.S., while I’m in Ireland. I’m in the process of separating, but he’s made it clear he’d never date a married woman. Am I wasting my time with this?

Female44 years oldWhiteHello, I have been engaged for about 3 months, and we’ve been together for almost 3 years. A few times a year, my fiancé goes out with his buddies, saying it’s a guys-only night. However, most of the time, someone brings girls along. While many...

I recently met a man at a car service center who fixed my car and didn’t charge me. I was surprised, but then the following week, I returned for another repair, and he once again didn’t charge me, saying all he wanted was a hug and calling me beautiful. This seemed strange, especially since I felt I looked my worst. Why would he do this and only ask for a hug in return? What’s really going on here?

Hi, I’ve known this guy for years, and recently we’ve started talking a lot more. We’ve both liked each other at different times in the past, but the timing was never right. Now, it feels different, but I can’t tell if he’s just being friendly or if he wants more, especially given our ten-year friendship. He recently bought me flowers, and last night he called me gorgeous, saying he’s always thought so. But he hasn’t asked me out, and I’m unsure of his intentions. It’s been a while since I dated anyone, and I’ve never dated a friend, so I’m confused. Any advice? Thanks!

I’m in a relationship that’s become completely sexless, and I’m at my breaking point. My boyfriend and I have been together since April 2022, and while things started off with mutual attraction, our sex life quickly fizzled out. After our first amazing time together, we went six weeks without intimacy. When I brought it up, he brushed it off as just ‘the way he is.’ But the gaps kept growing. We went seven months without sex, and despite my telling him I need more frequency, nothing’s changed.

Q: I reconnected with an ex from college and we have started a casual friends with benefits situation.  He lives in another state about 4 hours away so we always have to plan when we see each other in advance.  I am open to the possibility of something more...

Q: Hi, so there’s this guy that messages me and initiates most of our conversations. He is really nice to me, respectful, and a sweetheart. I’m just not sure if he wants to date or I’m not sure? I ask him to go out and have lunch and he’s always busy. I flirt with him...

Q: My boyfriend of 2.5 years is 38 years old. I met him on eharmony. When we met, I liked him but wasn't 100% sure about him. He had some undesirable traits in a mate. He was divorced and the nature and reasoning he gave me for the divorce didn't seem that terrible....