by The Last Honest Guy
I’m a woman of 48 who thankfully looks and feels about 33. This is due to keeping active and eating well. I’ve had a good career and lots of lovely friends. My only heartache is that is seems so difficult to have a relationship which works and lasts. Sure I’ve had two serious boyfriends, one for a year and a half who wanted to marry but I wasn’t into him enough to settle. The second was 14 years younger and ended the relationship after 4 years as he couldn’t commit for a life. I am a good person and would love to meet someone with whom it works. I’ve tried dance classes, traveling and even internet dating clubs all to no avail. I usually go about my day without focusing on this as I tend to take it in my stride. This helped by the fact that I often get asked out and do feel attractive. The problem is that I’m only really attracted to much younger guys. I don’t want a guy who has children. However, after the most recent breakup with a guy of 24 (we dated for 2 months) I feel that it is so hopeless. This hurt me a bit as I liked him so much even though he had a serious drink problem and knew it couldn’t continue. I started saying to myself ‘am I a lesbian?’, it was that bad! I know I’m not a lesbian of course but why is it so difficult? Thanks for any advice. (more…)
by Awesome Guest Post
Women sometimes wonder why men make certain assumptions about them when they first meet in person after hooking up via an online dating website. Often the explanation has to do with very minor details (subtleties) contained in the woman’s online dating profile. The tiniest details may seem insignificant to the woman writing the profile, yet can be interpreted quite differently by us men.
I’ve seen a ton of online dating profiles. Some are well-written, others are not at all. There are really four parts to pay keen attention to when a woman is writing her profile:
1) Your Screen Name
2) Your Catch Phrase
3) The wording of the profile itself
4) The photos you post of yourself (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
I often hear of cases where a couple is in love, everything’s great and they couldn’t be any happier so they get married. The funny thing is that after some time suddenly their magical relationship goes to the crapper. One of the most common complains by men is their current sex life in comparison to the one they had prior to getting married.
Some of these reasons are things like; “We don’t have as much sex as we used to” or “She doesn’t like to do the things we used to do in bed anymore”. Of course some of the things men are referring to are bj’s or oral sex for those of you who don’t know what that means. (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
Me and my good friend of 7/8 years have always had a good friendship. After a year we started messing around nothing serious just for fun sometimes. We have a good friendship just would happen to fool around once in a while. I can’t say that it was just about sex because we would do more than that we are just good friends. He has a girlfriend he got with her maybe 2/3 months after he and I became friends they have 2 kids now.
I’m in a relationship with my son’s father (whom my friend has no respect for and I don’t know why). We (my boyfriend & I ) have a lot of history and at a certain point we were separated for a couple years and recently ( a little over a year ago ) rekindled our relationship and I’m very happy. But since I got back in this relationship my friend
seems to be acting differently.
He calls and drives by my house at all hours of the day and night and he lives on the other side of town… he also has no problem putting down my relationship when he don’t even know my boyfriend at all. He don’t even like for me to talk about my boyfriend in anyway. I really don’t know why he’s acting this way? because for 1. I’m not his type, so I never thought he would want more or could see me more than being just friends because he already had someone. I really can’t pinpoint what’s going on in his head because him doing these things are somewhat new to me.
I’ll admit that maybe after a year or two of always being around each other that I grew feelings for the kid but knowing he was involved I had to shake it off . I came to a point where I did want more but I knew it wouldn’t happen and that I’d always come in last. So after a while it was nothing to me and I felt like we had a great friendship and I didn’t want to mess it up.
Then I get back in this relationship and I told him ( my friend ) that I wanted to be faithful….. after a while I stopped talking to him and I even ignored his calls and 8 months past and he still hit me up not really care if I’m with my boyfriend or not.
Sometimes he just stops by my house unexpectedly, don’t call, just shows up! He calls me from random numbers or even blocked. He hunted me down once, calling my step-mom’s phone driving to my fathers and step-mother’s home looking for me. He went to my house when I wasn’t home. He found me one morning when he came to my mother’s house out of the blue, it was just random! He looked like he just woke up like didn’t wash his face, still in his pj’s, wearing crops with no socks on. I know him so well that I wouldn’t think he was crazy or anything like that. I just called him a crack head and laughed about it….
But really honestly what do you think is the real reason why my friend would do these things? do you think he’s trying to mess up my relationship?
There’s sooo much more but I don’t want to go on and on… so from what I’ve told you, do u think you know? (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
My boyfriend lectures. Sometimes he can’t just talk to me, he turns into a cop (his job) and starts in on a lecture and he repeats himself over and over even though I say, I get it. I’m 39 (he’s 45) and I hate being lectured. I’m a grown ass woman. I try to be patient, but eventually I just need to either walk away or we’re going to fight.
I don’t get what he wants from me. Do I really need to stand there and listen to his lectures? We get into the worst fights; no yelling and screaming, just no talking, which I hate hate hate. (more…)
