by The Last Honest Guy
Dear Last Honest Guy,
I have been going out with this guy of a different culture. I know the certainties — that I am walking into heartbreak territory. His culture is quite clannish and so is my religion. Yet despite that, I am drawn to him. We have mutual liking for each other.
We agreed to keep it casual. Just not to over think it. But I can’t help it. I realize I regard things differently as he does. I am fighting a battle between my heart and my head.
We talked this morning. And we have settled things. I think I made the right choice as to define the rules this early on. It is just so hard to fight this growing attraction I have for him. I am afraid I would get too emotionally attached when all we agreed on is being casual.
I told him we are just friends who enjoy each other’s company. Hence, no hugs, no kisses, etc, He is a really good guy but what I am certain is that he isn’t the one. Just because we are impossible from the get go.
Please let me know your thoughts.
It would be in my best interest to just sever it right?
Fighting a battle,
Me
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by The Last Honest Guy
My boyfriend wants to video tape me giving him oral pleasure. I’m afraid that if I don’t he might go to some other female for his kinkiness. What do you advise me to do?
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by The Last Honest Guy
Ok, so Christmas is around the corner and you’re still having a hard time thinking of a good gift for your boyfriend, husband, or guy you like.
Well, I’m going to make it easy for you and give you 13 gift ideas for your man this Christmas. The following gifts are gifts that I can guarantee almost every guy will enjoy or want. These are all things we all dream of having and makes a perfect gift for us.
I will give you the main specs to look for when buying these products that will make you look like a pro when you give your man these gifts. He will be blown away and amazed on how knowledgeable you are when it comes to buying the perfect gadgets and gifts for him this Christmas.
So let’s start;
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by The Last Honest Guy
Ok I met my boyfriend whom is 30 years old. He is from a conservative white collar family like myself. I met him on the internet, on a game we both played. We have been talking for a year, when I initially started speaking to him, he had no job and was waiting to get into the armed Guard and living away from home in Oregon. Was living at his auntie’s and he was looking after her house while she worked. I was in Washington state at the time working (I am a promotions model). I went back to my country, Australia, and continued talking to him. We became serious as could be online and talked hours on the phone. He was feeling bad about his predicament and he and I talked and we both decided he should go back to his home in Michigan and take up a job offer of as Truck driver so he did, he moved in with his parents and saved money, our plan was to get an apartment in time for me to come to stay with him. So he did, he got the apartment, furnished it and has been working very long hours, his days range from 4 or 5 am – 7 pm and not walking in the door sometimes to 8 pm he is exhausted, he does this 6 times a week most weeks. He also has school online on top of that which takes about 5 hours a week online.
I finally got to Michigan the day he got settled in the apartment, but now he seems distant and always tired, he tells me he loves me, he considers us a couple but he just seems to act like he doesn’t care, he rarely asks how I am, how was my day, yet I always care for him. I don’t know if it is because of the astronomical hours he does, because I have seen him come home and literally fall asleep with food in his mouth in front of my eyes on the couch. I have asked him why we don’t communicate like we used to, he says it is because I am with him now, and he works a lot and between work and school he is tired and just wants to sleep. He has set up this life for us, an apartment, he buys food (and will go out of the way to buy items I like, special treats, like chocolate, jerky etc). Every morning he goes to work he kisses me on the forehead before he leaves. But now I am lucky if I get 5 minutes of conversation out of him.
Am I being silly and expecting too much? His work will slow down once the snow starts and he keeps telling me the hours of overtime he has will help us get through the winter. I am very grateful for everything he has done I love him dearly and I look at him as he is my soul mate. I just need someone to tell me this is normal. (more…)
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by The Last Honest Guy
I am in the process of deciding if it is worth it to invest in counseling with my fiancée. We both have issues with anger, and have tempers that can flare. I have done extensive work on myself in this area, however, and along with almost completely not cursing, or yelling, he has continued in this way.
He is older than me, and that could mean more set in his ways, but I broke up with him a month and half ago, but have since asked him if he will get counseling alone, and together. He says he will…..we shall see…. but I wanted to know if you have any suggestions for how he responds. He likes to blame, and not look at his own doing in any given fight. He does a lot of extra special things for me, almost kisses my butt, but when there is frustration he doesn’t use coping skills well. I don’t want to kid myself, and although I love him that is an action, not a verb, and I do not want an abusive marriage.
I appreciate your responding to this please.
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