by The Last Honest Guy
Have you ever heard of Tom Leykis?
Don’t feel bad if you haven’t, he’s been gone for the last 3 years. But don’t worry you now have the chance again to get to know him and find out what he’s all about.
Tom Leykis is a radio host who has been described as a “shock jock” due to the fact that he’s brutally honest and it’s not afraid to say what’s on his mind. He’s been on the air for over 20 years and has had a syndicated show for a long time before being taken off the air due to the station’s format change. I’m not going to go on and on about who he is, you can google his name and find out if you want to.
Why am I writing about Tom Leykis you ask?
Very simple, most of the loyal fans of The Last Honest Guy come here to get a true perspective on the way guys really think. Well, if you truly enjoy real honesty and like to know how most guys think, here’s another example and good way to get proof of what you read on this blog.
For those of you who often get offended by the things you read on here and just can’t believe most guys think the way I put it on most of my posts you can now listen to Tom’s new online show and hear it for yourself. Tom can be heard live weekdays at 3pm Pacific in a number of ways; either through his website www.blowmeuptom.com.
Keep in mind that when you listen to the show you are mostly hearing an opinion. Yes I said an OPINION! What that means is that there’s always exceptions to every rule and you certainly don’t have to agree with everything Tom says or any of the callers for that matter. Yes, expect to be pissed off and disagree as you often do about the things I write on here but none the less it’s still a portal to the true thoughts of men and a good resource for anyone who can’t seem to understand guys.
Just remember that it’s OK to disagree with his opinion, I certainly do on some subjects. For the most part, I think that everything he says makes a lot of sense and he certainly has a lot of facts to support it.
by The Last Honest Guy
I recently reconnected with a male friend from college 20 yrs ago via linkedin. While never dated, we had a strong attraction to each other over those 4 yrs which did occasionally get physical. In his email back to me a month ago he told me to let him know if I was ever in phila. We could get together I wad there on business the past two days so i let him know 3 days in advance. He responded and asked me what time would be good I never heard from him the rest of the day I got an email from him at 11 pm saying he was sorry but the day got away from him. He asked if I would be around the next day so we could catch up I responded again with times and again never heard back. So my question is what message is he sending me? Why offer twice and not reply back to me? He could have apologized and left. It at that. Should I say anything to him or will that make it worse? We are both married with kids. (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
Hello,
I’m at a loss, here. I’m trying not to be angry so I don’t push him away. The problem is, he looks at porn every time I’m away. I’m talking when I’m asleep, showering, walking the dog, getting dressed for work, cooking dinner, talking to the neighbor on the porch, running to the bank, at work, etc. He looks at hentai and, although not always, masturbates whenever he gets the chance. He’s done it while I nap on the sofa in the same room. Many times he does this only hours after turning down sex with me. He says he loves me and finds me attractive, but I feel like I must be revolting if he’d rather have his hand. We moved in together about 6 months ago and had sex up to 3 times a day until we got internet. Today is day 5 w/o sex. I came home from work and, even though I could barely keep my eyes open, made several attempts at intimacy. He shrugged off each try. We went to bed and I tried again. He pretended to be falling asleep, but got up as soon as I fell asleep and spent the next few hours looking at porn and, from the subtle evidence he failed to hide, I know he got off. I feel rejected and unattractive. I’ve tried asking him about fantasies, but how do I role play a gel girl? Help, please. (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
My husband and I have been married for over two years, and have been together for almost 7 years. I have always trusted my husband and we have been able to be honest about everything. Or so I had thought. Recently, I was loading digital pictures to the computer. When I was looking for the file to save them to, I came across a photo file labeled “stuff”. I clicked it and found several pornographic pictures. Now, this is not what I have the concern about. My husband has been honest about the fact that he looks at pornography. He even keeps his collection of Playboys on a bookshelf in our office. But, within this file was a file of non-pornographic pictures of women he knows. Some are co-workers of his, some are friends and there are even some pictures of his last serious ex girlfriend. Now, these are not old pictures. Some were saved as recently as last month ( I know this because they include pictures of a pregnant friend who just recently had her baby.) These are pictures that he has saved from their Facebook pages. I understand that some people often fantasize about people they know, but should I be concerned that he has a file of these photos? He has always told me that he was once cheated on by a girlfriend, so he would never cheat, but am I wrong to feel that this is a violation of trust, too? And how do I tell him that I know about this file. I have never felt the need to snoop through his stuff, but now I don’t know what to trust. I would love to hear your opinion of the situation. Thank you! (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
I have been single for about 3 1/2 years now. My last relationship ended very badly and I got really hurt. So I now run at the first sign that I actually start liking a guy. I pick at anything I can to find a reason that I shouldn’t date him. I’m trying to catch myself and not run but that is a very difficult thing to do. So now I am dating someone new who is also 30. He is a very sweet and caring guy who treats me like a queen. He seems like a very genuine guy however, I recently found out that he has a few felony convictions on his record and is actually facing more charges. All of the charges are over a year old and have to do with possession of marijuana with intent to sell. He doesn’t know that I know yet. I work in the legal field and take my career very seriously. Also I am not involved in any way with drugs or any other illegal activity. I know this may be a really dumb question but would you consider that a valid reason to stop dating him or should I give him chance to explain? I just don’t want to stupidly run from relationships anymore. Please help! (more…)
