So I am best friends with my ex-boyfriend…. We were together for four years and I broke up with him after losing someone close to me and I felt like I was smothering. That was 3 years ago and he has been there for everything since still is very close to me and my family and see him at least once a week. He just came home from being in Oz for 6 months and we went out to celebrate had a few drinks and we slept together. Since we have broken up we have kissed once or twice but never gone this far. He kissed me and although I kissed him back I stressed it might not be a good idea but we carried on. It was a passionate night and he told me he loved me. The next morning we both said we were good and things wouldn’t change but he is so awkward with me now will barely look me in the eye and is giving short answers. I don’t know what to do?
It’s very clear, this guy is in love with you. He told you!
If you don’t like him as a boyfriend you should be straight with him and make it very clear that there’s no chance of you guys ever getting back together. On the other hand, if you know you want to be with him, then this is a good opportunity to start the relationship back up. Why do I have a feeling you don’t want him as a boyfriend?