So, you’ve decided to write a love letter to your boyfriend. Good for you! But let’s be real—if you do this wrong, it’ll end up sounding like something from a bad rom-com, and we both know no guy wants to read that. A great love letter isn’t about being poetic or...

I’ve been chatting with a guy online for nine months. We’ve been intimate over video calls, he calls me beautiful, and we spend hours talking with loads of emails every day. The issue is, he’s been divorced for two years and says he’s not ready for a relationship. He has two grown daughters and lives in the U.S., while I’m in Ireland. I’m in the process of separating, but he’s made it clear he’d never date a married woman. Am I wasting my time with this?

Female44 years oldWhiteHello, I have been engaged for about 3 months, and we’ve been together for almost 3 years. A few times a year, my fiancé goes out with his buddies, saying it’s a guys-only night. However, most of the time, someone brings girls along. While many...

I recently met a man at a car service center who fixed my car and didn’t charge me. I was surprised, but then the following week, I returned for another repair, and he once again didn’t charge me, saying all he wanted was a hug and calling me beautiful. This seemed strange, especially since I felt I looked my worst. Why would he do this and only ask for a hug in return? What’s really going on here?

Hi, I’ve known this guy for years, and recently we’ve started talking a lot more. We’ve both liked each other at different times in the past, but the timing was never right. Now, it feels different, but I can’t tell if he’s just being friendly or if he wants more, especially given our ten-year friendship. He recently bought me flowers, and last night he called me gorgeous, saying he’s always thought so. But he hasn’t asked me out, and I’m unsure of his intentions. It’s been a while since I dated anyone, and I’ve never dated a friend, so I’m confused. Any advice? Thanks!