Q:

Hey so I’ve been dealing with this guy for almost 4 yrs now. We have a fwb type of relationship. The problem with this is I have caught feelings for him and I believe he has for me, but we are too afraid to say anything. What should I do?

A:

You can’t wait forever to see if he makes the first move and comes clean. Four years is a long time and you must “man up” and tell him how you feel. If he’s not “ready” for you then it’s time to move on because life is too short to waste it with someone who may or may not want to be with you.