by The Last Honest Guy
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Dear last honest guy,
I’ve been seeing this guy for two weeks or so and last Thursday night we hooked up and he came back to mine where we had sex. I saw him on Saturday night at a party and we went back to my friend’s house to watch a movie. He left and said that he’d drop me home in the morning, but he ended up “chilling” at his friend’s place. Since then he’s been very MIA. I just want to know where we stand, as we decided we were friends with benefits. He said he’d make it up to me for not driving me home, but he hasn’t contacted me in two days. What should I do? Thank you!!!
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by The Last Honest Guy
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So my ex broke up with me four weeks ago, after nearly 17 months together. He got with his new girlfriend that night. I did all the things I know I’m not supposed to (multiple calls, texts, etc) and obviously that didn’t work.
The following weekend, he came to pick up some stuff from my house. I’ll admit, I was crying and begging him not to go like a crazy person… it was awful… then he did something I’ve never seen him do before… he cried, not like I was, but some tears rolled down his cheeks and he held me so tight, I didn’t want him to let go… I obviously let him leave eventually, but this was mainly as my little sister came home and she would freak if she saw him We spoke a little bit the next couple of weeks, sometimes ok, sometimes arguing. We were messaging on a Thursday lunchtime, arguing this time, and he just stopped replying. So for the first time, I just left him, no ‘why are you ignoring me?’ messages. I just left him alone. And by Saturday lunch time, he had called me to see if I wanted to hang out while his girlfriend was at work.
We went for a walk around a park (where he tried to throw me in the lake, a tradition of ours). I did get upset a couple of times because of things being said, but there’s somethings an ex doesn’t want to see or know! Then to the cinema. He paid for EVERYTHING. There was some poking and shoving while watching the movie. He even called his girlfriend and told her he would be late getting her as he was taking me home! He did tell me on the way home that he doesn’t like me like that but you don’t just get over someone with a click of your fingers!
So I don’t 100% believe him I then waited to see if he would message me first… he did. It was all pretty flirty, then I (casually) asked if next we were hanging out could he ask the night before so I could tell my Dad where I was going without my sisters going crazy… he said he didn’t know if we could see each other again as the day hadn’t proved to his new girlfriend I was over him (she expected me to get over him in four hours, two of which were spent in the cinema? Really?) so that hurt, that may have been my last time with him.
A couple of days later, I got upset (again) and said ‘Don’t you miss me? Don’t you want me in your life?’ and he said ‘It doesn’t matter what I want’ and stopped talking. WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?! Two friends thinks that means he’s changed his mind and doesn’t know how to tell her, and one isn’t sure. I tried to ask the next day bit he just said he wanted sleep… He’s sent me a few messages a day since then, he only sent one today and I think that’s because his girlfriend caught him messaging me as he’s been on whatsapp loads and hasn’t messaged back…
So… what do you think is going through his head?
Does he want me back?
Or at least still have feelings for me?
What should I do to get him back?
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by The Last Honest Guy
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I instantly felt attract to this guy at first sight. We kept glancing at one another at the club. We danced near each other. I walked pass at him to the bar, he noticed and approached. We talked for a bit. I got his name, but I didn’t give him my name. He’s a regular there. Should I revisit? The attraction was heavy between the two of us?
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by The Last Honest Guy
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Hey so I’ve been dealing with this guy for almost 4 yrs now. We have a fwb type of relationship. The problem with this is I have caught feelings for him and I believe he has for me, but we are too afraid to say anything. What should I do?
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by The Last Honest Guy
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Saturday night I went to a party with a guy friend from college and then after we walked around town with our friends with arms around each other for about 3 hours. I know that if I had given him the cues, he would’ve kissed me. Monday he sent me a snapchat and I replied. Then today (Tuesday) he asked me to send the one picture that got taken of us that night to him. The point is I like him and wanna spend more time with him, but I’m not looking to date him. His birthday is in a couple days and I wanna be with him on it. How do I let him know I wanna spend more time with him without scaring him off and making him think I want something serious? Thank you.
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by The Last Honest Guy
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So I have a question. This guy I talk dirty with through texting and messaging said something weird to me today. He asked for a dirty pic last night and I reluctantly sent him one but it was a couple months old as I said I couldn’t snap one last night. (I was on my period if that helps). Anyways I was a little embarrassed to send it so this morning I text him and told him to erase it and he said it was awesome and that his sickness stops at getting his red wings. Like I know what red wings means with oral sex but I have no idea what he meant by that statement. Help guys. I haven’t heard back from him yet so I have no answer. Why would he say that??? It’s not like I sent him a pic of it like “that”?
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