Why would my ex send me a Friend Request on Facebook if he’s married?

Why would my ex send me a Friend Request on Facebook if he’s married?

Ok so my ex is 26 too, and Latino. I met this guy in my last year of college and we went out for about 3 weeks. If I had known at the time that he had JUST broken up w/ his previous ex a few days before we met, I wouldn’t have bothered. So during the last week we were together, Not only do I find out he’s still talks to his ex, (she cheated on him so I didn’t expect him to be cordial) but he was still in love with her! Needless to say we had a horrible break-up after that, (involving him trying to break up with me over email) I never spoke to him again. So yesterday, I get a friend request from him on facebook, and as shocked as I was, it was nothing compared to the fact that I found out he is now MARRIED. And NOT to the chick he left me for. No surprise there. So why is he trying to approach me now? It was confusing back then when we met because everything happened so fast, (which should have made sense seeing as how I was just the rebound girl) and it’s even more confusing now. I was happier to just forget about him. What do you think? (more…)

Oral sex… is this fair?

Oral sex… is this fair?

Okay so if a guy never gives oral sex but expects it back is that fair? I don’t have a problem giving it to my man but not all the time unless I’m getting something back in return. Am I being selfish? Any tips on getting it back?? I am a very clean person I shower twice a day there is no reason why I would smell funny or anything. (more…)

Physical Attraction vs. Emotional Attraction

Physical Attraction vs. Emotional Attraction

When it comes to men, physical attractions vs. emotional attractions are two completely different worlds. Men by nature are physical people, we like to look at things that attract us and that’s why you girls constantly catch us looking away. So, that’s a fact and there’s nothing you can do about it. It’s like telling an elephant not to eat peanuts; it’s just not going to happen. If you think that your man doesn’t look away you are wrong and delusional. However I do believe that if your man is constantly checking out other women in front of you it’s disrespectful and just not cool. (more…)

Does he really care about me or does he just want action?

Does he really care about me or does he just want action?

So this guy at work and I have messed around a little after the store closed in the break room. We only kissed for a bit and massaged each other, but never had sex. Well after that he texted me asking if I was okay with everything that went down. I said I was. Well after a while a few weeks passed and he wanted us to do it again. I said that I had a problem with it because I thought and felt like that’s all he wanted from me. He said he didn’t mean for me to feel that way about it. Then a few weeks later he said “I care about you” I jokingly said “no you don’t” he got really upset and I guess took it personal. He changed for a while and was very distant toward me. Well recently he said he “cared about me again but he knows that I don’t believe him” I then told him that I thought about it and I do believe him. Ever since then he changed and is sweeter and compliments me more than before. He says things like “I can’t stop looking at you sometimes” that I “distract him in a good way” and he is also talking about the times we had, after close when we messed around. And I guess wants it again. He seems really sweet. Does he really care about me or does he just want action?
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