by The Last Honest Guy
My ex started to “hang out” with his ex after he broke up with me. I don’t understand this sort of behavior because we did didn’t end it on bad terms but I feel like he’s doing this to purposely piss me off. During the relationship his ex messaged him to get together but he passed it off cause he was in a relationship and didn’t want to make things complicated. Right after we broke up from a relationship of 2 years he goes to a party where this ex gf of his is at and starts talking to her a lot after. He brought her to one of my best friend’s clothing store and knew that friend would text me about it (and he did in the end). Fast forward to a few months later they are now on vacation together and he posted a picture of him and her and I don’t know if they’re dating. Why would a guy do this? Is it purposely to get my attention and make me mad? (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
So, the title of this post seems a little bit weird. The reason I’m writing this post is simply to tell all of you why I give relationship advice which by the way it’s also free. A lot of what I’m going to tell you guys can be found in my about page of this website. However, looking at the stats of my site I realize that not very many people take the time to read it. It’s understandable, we’re all really busy. Really I’m just thankful that you at least take the time to read some of my post.
As this site continues to grow, I feel it’s necessary to remind all my loyal readers and the new ones why I do this.
So, what’s the real reason I like and enjoy giving free relationship advice? (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
People seems to always come up with different “rules” on how long someone should wait after a break up. Some say, at least 6 months if you were in a serious (years) relationship. Others come up with ridiculous time frames that have absolutely no rational reasons behind them. Often people simply seem to think is disrespectful to the other person if you start dating right away after you break up with them. And others will criticize you if you start dating right away when someone breaks up with you and say things like; “I guess she didn’t really love him that much, looks at her she’s already going on dates”. (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
I’ve recently ran into my high school / college boyfriend…
Can U help me read his actions?
Are these guy behaviors considered flirting?
1 He totally stopped working and walked over to speak to me.
2 He shook my hand TWICE.
3 He spoke my full name really loudly like he was amazed.
4 He asked if I still lived on the same street I used to.
5 He asked if I ever had kids.
I’m curious if he wants back with me.
And yes, I’d take him back.
We separated over career choices not personalities.
(He moved with his job but he’s back now.)
How do you read this event? (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
How long is too long to go without sex?
Sex is the most important part (top 3 for sure) of marriage or a romantic relationship. Sex is what defines a romantic relationship, without it all you really have is a good friendship. Are you with me?
So, how long is too long without sex? I guess there’s really no exact time frame. It really varies from couple to couple and that’s because our sexual needs are all different. This is why I believe sexual compatibility is important. Both parties have to be on the same page in order to be a good match and for things to work out.
Unfortunately, a number of couples are not necessarily compatible but still insist on being together and trying to make things work. Although this is not the ideal situation to be in, I believe there’s always a solution to a problem.
Going back to our original question, how long is too long? The way you knows it’s been too long is when either one of the two people in the relationship has a need for sex. Let me point out that although rare, at times even women are the ones that suffer from not getting their needs met by their partner.
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by The Last Honest Guy
Hi I’m 19 and me n my ex were together for almost four years, one day he breaks up with me and in the next week started talking to this girl. 2 weeks later they were living together and its almost been 2 months and he says he loves her. He has came back to me twice but always goes back to her. He never knew her before they met bc she was one of my old friends… so how could he move on this quick? Why does he say i love you but then, how could he fall in love so fast? Then when he sees me he talks about all these guys he thinks i messed around with, my ex was my first boyfriend, love and etc. We were even engaged… and when he comes around me i see him textin and calling her… i don’t understand at all!!! (more…)
