by The Last Honest Guy
So, my neighbor and I have this thing going on. I wouldn’t call it a relationship, but we see each other often. He’s 19 and in college and I’m a high school senior. I’ve known him since I was a freshman, but we’ve never really hung out until now. Basically, the night of my 17th birthday he asked me if I wanted to come over an chill to celebrate. I decided why not!? since I was officially older and wanted to do something out of the norm for myself. So, I went over and we ended up having a really nice time. He texted me again the next weekend to see if I wanted to come over again, and I agreed. This time we ended up drinking a bit, which ended up leading to intimacy. We made out and he did me a few favors, but I didn’t do anything for him. Since then we’ve hung out a bit and the intimacy hasn’t gone past oral on my part. When we hangout it’s usually not sexual anymore, in fact, the past few times we’ve done anything together I haven’t gotten more than a peck on the lips (which I appreciate because even though it’s nice to be intimate with him that’s not all I want). The more we hangout the more I learn about him, and I’ve really begun to enjoy the time we spend together. Awhile ago we went to a party together and he ended up being getting pretty drunk, during that time he told me that he’d been thinking about us dating and said that he wanted to take me out for dinner radda radda adda..Anyways I just told him that I’d think about it since he was drunk and I figured he’d forget that’d he said anything to me the next day. That was also around the time we’d just started hanging out, so I didn’t know him as well then. But, basically he hasn’t brought it up since however we still hangout literally every weekend. We’ve yet to go on a real date though, so my question to you is does he like me? Or even see a potential for a relationship?
Because the more I get to know him the more the crush I have grows a little bit. I wouldn’t say I’m completely attached or anything but I do care for him and I don’t wanna waste my time if he only sees me as a booty call.. which really is inaccurate because we’ve never had sex but still… (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
Okay so me and this guy from work kind of had a thing for a couple of weeks, but all of a sudden it stopped. I decided to ask him what was going on, he told me that he has a hard time trusting people, I decided that me and him should be just friends even though I still feel an attraction to him.
So, after that discussion, we worked together, but there was this other guy there that I hadn’t had a shift with yet. Me and him started talking, connecting, and from the corner of my eye I see the other guy just staring but he was laughing and smiling. He then would come and interrupt us and be like “Oh here’s a picture I drew of you”, or be like “Oh I see that you two are connecting”, then afterward when it was just me and him alone for a second, he goes “You know that guy, he’s a really nice guy, he’s not an ass like me” Is he jealous or just being a guy friend?
Then the next week, he would go up to other girls right in front of me and say things like “oh doesn’t she have nice hair| touching other girls hair. I know he was doing it to upset me, and that’s what frustrates me, why would he want to upset me?
What should I do?
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by The Last Honest Guy
I met this guy at my son’s sporting event. Both of our sons swim. He is a single parent like me. About 4 or so years ago his ex wife divorced him for another man. He has a live in girlfriend that he talks a lot a bout and seems genuinely fond of. I think they have been involved for about 2 years. Well my question is why does this guy seem to flirt with me, yet go on to brag about his gf? This guy makes deep eye contact with me and seems to light up when I walk into the room. He asks where I was if I skip an event. He always seeks out conversation w me and is so nice. He does not come across as a player and seems more cautious than anything. I think he may like me, but then he starts talking about her. What is going on? Does he like me or not? Why does he always bring her up in our conversations?
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by The Last Honest Guy
Hi.
I I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I’m 21 and he’s 23. We have a long distance relationship. 4 hours actually. The whole time we have been together there has been many girls making up things like that he cheats on me etc.. But ive found out that the girls have actually just wanted him but recently he’s been lieing to me alot and also not treating me very well. Wondering if you think he is cheating on me. And if you have any advice on how I could trust him alot more.
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by The Last Honest Guy
I am divorced and in a relationship with a non Jewish man. Our relationship has been warm and loving and he has many wonderful qualities and things in common. Yesterday, he asked me a question if I had “jewed him down” for a purse I purchased. After realizing that slipped out of his mouth, he felt terrible and apologized. This is a very offensive remark and very derogatory to Jewish people and I am having difficulty getting past this. I am mortified that he used this vocabulary and in front of my mother yet!! Please help with any advice, your thoughts are appreciated. (more…)
by The Last Honest Guy
What kind of guy says “NO” to friends with benefits?
This is an easy answer and not one that you want to hear but I’ll say it anyways because, well I am The Last Honest Guy and this is what I do.
The kind of guy that says “no” to a friends with benefits is one that finds you too damn ugly to hit it even if he knows there’s no strings attached. Of course this generally applies to a single guy.
Sometime a guy who has a girlfriend or is in a relationship will say “no” because of obvious reasons, he values his relationship and doesn’t want to screw it up.
Another possible reason might be if a girl has a track record of being psycho. What I mean by this is that some women say they just want to be friends with benefits but in reality that’s not true. This situation can really turn ugly if the girl is psycho and don’t keep up with the agreement. Often times it brings a lot of drama or they easily become attached and want more than just sex. Also, when it’s time to move on they just can’t let go.
Ask yourself, are you like any of the above mentioned?
