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I’m at a loss, here. I’m trying not to be angry so I don’t push him away. The problem is, he looks at porn every time I’m away. I’m talking when I’m asleep, showering, walking the dog, getting dressed for work, cooking dinner, talking to the neighbor on the porch, running to the bank, at work, etc. He looks at hentai and, although not always, masturbates whenever he gets the chance. He’s done it while I nap on the sofa in the same room. Many times he does this only hours after turning down sex with me. He says he loves me and finds me attractive, but I feel like I must be revolting if he’d rather have his hand. We moved in together about 6 months ago and had sex up to 3 times a day until we got internet. Today is day 5 w/o sex. I came home from work and, even though I could barely keep my eyes open, made several attempts at intimacy. He shrugged off each try. We went to bed and I tried again. He pretended to be falling asleep, but got up as soon as I fell asleep and spent the next few hours looking at porn and, from the subtle evidence he failed to hide, I know he got off. I feel rejected and unattractive. I’ve tried asking him about fantasies, but how do I role play a gel girl? Help, please. Continue >>
My husband and I have been married for over two years, and have been together for almost 7 years. I have always trusted my husband and we have been able to be honest about everything. Or so I had thought. Recently, I was loading digital pictures to the computer. When I was looking for the file to save them to, I came across a photo file labeled “stuff”. I clicked it and found several pornographic pictures. Now, this is not what I have the concern about. My husband has been honest about the fact that he looks at pornography. He even keeps his collection of Playboys on a bookshelf in our office. But, within this file was a file of non-pornographic pictures of women he knows. Some are co-workers of his, some are friends and there are even some pictures of his last serious ex girlfriend. Now, these are not old pictures. Some were saved as recently as last month ( I know this because they include pictures of a pregnant friend who just recently had her baby.) These are pictures that he has saved from their Facebook pages. I understand that some people often fantasize about people they know, but should I be concerned that he has a file of these photos? He has always told me that he was once cheated on by a girlfriend, so he would never cheat, but am I wrong to feel that this is a violation of trust, too? And how do I tell him that I know about this file. I have never felt the need to snoop through his stuff, but now I don’t know what to trust. I would love to hear your opinion of the situation. Thank you! Continue >>
So you’re wondering what to get your man, boyfriend, husband, or special someone this Christmas and can’t figure out what kind of gift to get him?
Well once again I’ve come up with a list of 5 Christmas gift ideas for him for under $100. I’ve also added a few options that are a bit more expensive but nice!
Keep in mind that these presents are guaranteed to make your special someone very happy this 2011 Christmas.
1. Steve Jobs [Hardcover]
Steve Jobs was basically a genius and the person responsible for great and trendy things such as the iphone, ipad, Mac computers and everything Apple. So if you want to be a cool chick that just wants to give a guy a cool gift that will make you look like you actually care about things that happen around you, this is the gift for you. It’s also good gift you can give to someone who you don’t really know and want to impress. Price:$17.49 (amazon)
2. Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 3
This game is one of the hottest games out there right now. This game is a sure bet when it comes to giving a guy something he likes. Even if the guy you’re dating doesn’t seem into this kind of game, the bottom line is that if he owns a video game system, he’s not going to mind having this game at all. Price:$59.99
3. Greatest Grey Goose Gift Basket 
Any guy would appreciate a gift basket of their favorite liquor or beer for that matter. This gift is just a sure bet your man will love his present this holiday season. You should first find out what he likes to drink, which shouldn’t take much to do, and then go out and search for such product. Just about every major brand of liquor or beer make gift set of some sort. Price:$99.99
4. The Hangover Part II
This movie is one of the funniest movies of all time. I haven’t met one guy who says this isn’t a good and funny movie. The Hangover 2 is well worth being part of any guys movie collection, without a doubt. You should keep in mind that most guys prefer a blue ray as opposed to a regular DVD, but make sure he actually owns a blue ray player before you buy it. Price:$24.09
5. Roku 2 XD Streaming Player 1080p by Roku 
What’s a Roku box? It’s basically putting the internet on your TV. It allows you to watch Netflix, Hulu, UFC and much more right on your television as long as you have a wi-fi connection. I gotta tell you this is one of my favorite devices out there and one that can be a great present to nay guy. You don’t need to get the most expensive one ($99) if you don’t want to, I don’t think it’s necessary. About the only difference between the XD one and the XS is games. You’re better off just getting him the XD and save a few bucks. Price:$79.99
List to be continued…
I have been single for about 3 1/2 years now. My last relationship ended very badly and I got really hurt. So I now run at the first sign that I actually start liking a guy. I pick at anything I can to find a reason that I shouldn’t date him. I’m trying to catch myself and not run but that is a very difficult thing to do. So now I am dating someone new who is also 30. He is a very sweet and caring guy who treats me like a queen. He seems like a very genuine guy however, I recently found out that he has a few felony convictions on his record and is actually facing more charges. All of the charges are over a year old and have to do with possession of marijuana with intent to sell. He doesn’t know that I know yet. I work in the legal field and take my career very seriously. Also I am not involved in any way with drugs or any other illegal activity. I know this may be a really dumb question but would you consider that a valid reason to stop dating him or should I give him chance to explain? I just don’t want to stupidly run from relationships anymore. Please help! Continue >>
So, my neighbor and I have this thing going on. I wouldn’t call it a relationship, but we see each other often. He’s 19 and in college and I’m a high school senior. I’ve known him since I was a freshman, but we’ve never really hung out until now. Basically, the night of my 17th birthday he asked me if I wanted to come over an chill to celebrate. I decided why not!? since I was officially older and wanted to do something out of the norm for myself. So, I went over and we ended up having a really nice time. He texted me again the next weekend to see if I wanted to come over again, and I agreed. This time we ended up drinking a bit, which ended up leading to intimacy. We made out and he did me a few favors, but I didn’t do anything for him. Since then we’ve hung out a bit and the intimacy hasn’t gone past oral on my part. When we hangout it’s usually not sexual anymore, in fact, the past few times we’ve done anything together I haven’t gotten more than a peck on the lips (which I appreciate because even though it’s nice to be intimate with him that’s not all I want). The more we hangout the more I learn about him, and I’ve really begun to enjoy the time we spend together. Awhile ago we went to a party together and he ended up being getting pretty drunk, during that time he told me that he’d been thinking about us dating and said that he wanted to take me out for dinner radda radda adda..Anyways I just told him that I’d think about it since he was drunk and I figured he’d forget that’d he said anything to me the next day. That was also around the time we’d just started hanging out, so I didn’t know him as well then. But, basically he hasn’t brought it up since however we still hangout literally every weekend. We’ve yet to go on a real date though, so my question to you is does he like me? Or even see a potential for a relationship?
Because the more I get to know him the more the crush I have grows a little bit. I wouldn’t say I’m completely attached or anything but I do care for him and I don’t wanna waste my time if he only sees me as a booty call.. which really is inaccurate because we’ve never had sex but still… Continue >>
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