When I was 22 I started dating a girl. shortly thereafter she found out she was pregnant from her ex boyfriend. we eventually got married in 2008 and divorced in 2011. She had a little girl and I was there throughout the entire pregnancy, birth and have raised her even after the divorce. My daughter is now five. I am now 27 and I have been dating my girlfriend, 22, for over a year. She has always said that she doesn’t particularly like kids and didn’t want kids. She has since decided she wants kids with me however does not accept my daughter as mine because of the lack of DNA. She refuses to come hang out with us and barely talks to me on weekends when I have my daughter. Other than this issue we are perfect for each other. Why can’t she accept her as my daughter? Am I expecting to much from her about the situation? Has anyone else been in this situation before? Advice needed!!!!!
First of all, you’re a god damn moron for taking someone else’s kid and calling it your own. What the he’ll were you thinking?
Anyways, I guess that’s besides the point.
My answer is simple, if you truly consider this kid yours, then you should only date people who are willing to accept you and your kid. Is this too hard to understand?
Pretend this was your biological kid, would you still want to be with someone who doesn’t accept the fact that you have another kid?
Stop being an idiot and kick this bitch to the curb and definitely don’t even think about having kids with her.