Okay so me and this guy from work kind of had a thing for a couple of weeks, but all of a sudden it stopped. I decided to ask him what was going on, he told me that he has a hard time trusting people, I decided that me and him should be just friends even though I still feel an attraction to him.
So, after that discussion, we worked together, but there was this other guy there that I hadn’t had a shift with yet. Me and him started talking, connecting, and from the corner of my eye I see the other guy just staring but he was laughing and smiling. He then would come and interrupt us and be like “Oh here’s a picture I drew of you”, or be like “Oh I see that you two are connecting”, then afterward when it was just me and him alone for a second, he goes “You know that guy, he’s a really nice guy, he’s not an ass like me” Is he jealous or just being a guy friend?
Then the next week, he would go up to other girls right in front of me and say things like “oh doesn’t she have nice hair| touching other girls hair. I know he was doing it to upset me, and that’s what frustrates me, why would he want to upset me?
What should I do?
As far as the first question goes; Is he jealous or just being a guy friend?
No, he’s not being a guy friend. He was simply testing you to see what you think of him. He was probably expecting you to say; ” No you’re not an asshole”.
By the way, he was trying to make you jealous by talking to other girls. Again he was trying to test you and see what kind of respond he got from you.
What Should you do?
Simple, you already made a decision to just be friends. So now stand by it and not give it any importance. Just ignore anything he does. After all, if it bothers you that he talks to other girls than just go out with him.