I’m dating my neighbor…

I’m dating my neighbor…

So, my neighbor and I have this thing going on. I wouldn’t call it a relationship, but we see each other often. He’s 19 and in college and I’m a high school senior. I’ve known him since I was a freshman, but we’ve never really hung out until now. Basically, the night of my 17th birthday he asked me if I wanted to come over an chill to celebrate. I decided why not!? since I was officially older and wanted to do something out of the norm for myself. So, I went over and we ended up having a really nice time. He texted me again the next weekend to see if I wanted to come over again, and I agreed. This time we ended up drinking a bit, which ended up leading to intimacy. We made out and he did me a few favors, but I didn’t do anything for him. Since then we’ve hung out a bit and the intimacy hasn’t gone past oral on my part. When we hangout it’s usually not sexual anymore, in fact, the past few times we’ve done anything together I haven’t gotten more than a peck on the lips (which I appreciate because even though it’s nice to be intimate with him that’s not all I want). The more we hangout the more I learn about him, and I’ve really begun to enjoy the time we spend together. Awhile ago we went to a party together and he ended up being getting pretty drunk, during that time he told me that he’d been thinking about us dating and said that he wanted to take me out for dinner radda radda adda..Anyways I just told him that I’d think about it since he was drunk and I figured he’d forget that’d he said anything to me the next day. That was also around the time we’d just started hanging out, so I didn’t know him as well then. But, basically he hasn’t brought it up since however we still hangout literally every weekend. We’ve yet to go on a real date though, so my question to you is does he like me? Or even see a potential for a relationship?


Because the more I get to know him the more the crush I have grows a little bit. I wouldn’t say I’m completely attached or anything but I do care for him and I don’t wanna waste my time if he only sees me as a booty call.. which really is inaccurate because we’ve never had sex but still… (more…)

Does this guy at work like me?

Does this guy at work like me?

Okay so me and this guy from work kind of had a thing for a couple of weeks, but all of a sudden it stopped. I decided to ask him what was going on, he told me that he has a hard time trusting people, I decided that me and him should be just friends even though I still feel an attraction to him.

So, after that discussion, we worked together, but there was this other guy there that I hadn’t had a shift with yet. Me and him started talking, connecting, and from the corner of my eye I see the other guy just staring but he was laughing and smiling. He then would come and interrupt us and be like “Oh here’s a picture I drew of you”, or be like “Oh I see that you two are connecting”, then afterward when it was just me and him alone for a second, he goes “You know that guy, he’s a really nice guy, he’s not an ass like me” Is he jealous or just being a guy friend?

Then the next week, he would go up to other girls right in front of me and say things like “oh doesn’t she have nice hair| touching other girls hair. I know he was doing it to upset me, and that’s what frustrates me, why would he want to upset me?

What should I do?

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