Ok so my story is very long so here it goes. I was dating a guy for about 2 months. my whole family was against me dating him because he has a pending court case with domestic violence. I talked about it with him in detail and he has evidence to prove he’s innocent plus I don’t get that vibe from him. Everything about him I know my family doesn’t want me to be with him. He has 3 kids and because of the case can’t get a job, but he treats me really good and says he loves me and any money he’s gotten he’s spent on me. I feel great when I’m with him but broke it off because of family but also cus he did my taxes for me n messed them up n now I’m being reviewed n I have to wait for them to contact me. And his excuse is he was just trying to help me out because of his situation he know he cant provide like he should n wanted to help in any way he can. Here’s the catch, the difference was going to his account. He says its cus it was suppose to be a surprise n said his mom would call me to prove it cus he did the same for her n cried to me n all saying how sorry he was n he messed up n he shouldn’t have done it n he’ll pay for any fines I may get. And he loves me n wants to marry me. In the end of it all he asked me if he should give up trying to be with me n move on n I said yes, but I do love him n we had good times together. He treated me right in everyway esp compared to the last relationship I had. He’s cried to me and begged and came up with ways for me to be with him for my family not to know in the past but I just feel like things keep coming up n every time they do he says all the right things to make me think otherwise. I feel so confused and hurt and heart broken. I want to be with him but I don’t know if it worth it and what his intentions are but it just felt so good when I was with him and now I feel miserable. writing and reading this I know I sound dumb :/ but cant help how I feel for him. I think I already know but would like a second opinion.
Ok it’s time for some Tough Love. Here’s your second opinion;
Stop being such a dumb ass!
Clearly, this guy is not worth your time. You know this, you’re family has told you this, and I don’t even know you and I’m telling you the same thing. Leave this guy before it’s too late.
So let’s recap:
- He’s in trouble with the law for domestic violence.
- He has 3 kids.
- Can’t get a job.
- Attempted to steal from you.
- Got you in trouble with the IRS.
- Promised to pay any fines you might get from the IRS but he doesn’t have a DAMN JOB!
I really don’t think I need to say anymore. It’s pretty clear that you should forget about this loser right now and listen to your family. Your family loves you and they only want the best for you. I really doubt they would opposed a relationship with someone who was truly a good catch.
As an added bonus I’ve dug up a video that fits perfectly with this post, enjoy: (Lala is ghetto but she’s still pretty good looking…LOL)