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10 signs the guy you’re dating is a player

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Have you ever wondered if the guy you’re dating is a player? Does everyone you know tells you he is but you don’t want to see it? The following will show you some of the most common signs to know you’re dating a player.

1. He asks for your number but refuses to give you his

This is a typical sign of a player. A guy often gets your number but when he calls, you notice that his number is Restricted or unknown and always has an excuse of why you can’t have his number. Sometimes he even calls you from a friend’s phone and tells you not to call him back at that number. If this is happening to you, chances are you’re dating a player.

2. He never answers his phone when you call him

If you manage to get a contact number from him, every time you call him he never picks up the phone. You always have to leave a voicemail and wait for a call back. This is because he’s with another girl at that time and of course he doesn’t have time for you. Later when he gets a chance he’ll send you a text and tell you he’s busy (giving you a lame excuse) and call you when ever he gets a chance. If this is happening to you, chances are you’re dating a player.

3. You never meet his family or close friends

If you’ve been dating a guy but realize you don’t know any of his friends let alone his family, there’s a reason for that. You’re obviously just a temporary chick and there’s no reason to introduce you to anyone he knows. You might know one or two of his male friends but usually you have to bring a girlfriend with you in order to “hang out” otherwise it’s usually a one-on-one encounter. If this is happening to you, chances are you’re dating a player.

4. Most of his friends on his Facebook or Myspace are skanky girls

Sometimes you meet a guy on FB or Myspace (very common now a day) or simply add each other later after your initial meet and think he’s a nice guy. But take a look at his friend list or the comments he gets, if you notice most of his “friends” are skanky chicks that leave him provocative comments that’s generally a good sign he’s a player. You’re just another one of those chicks who later will leave the same kind of comments.

5. He never wants to go anywhere you invite him

A lot of the times you invite the guy you’re dating to certain places you don’t want to go alone and for some reason he’s always busy or just simply tells you he doesn’t want to go. The reason is because a player is not interesting in spending time with you unless it involves an empty house and a bed. If this is happening to you, chances are you’re dating a player.

6. He never answers his phone in front of you

If you notice that every time you’re with him he never picks up his cell phone and says things like “it’s not an important call” or “who ever it is can wait” usually translates to “I’ll call this chick after I’m done with this one”. If this is happening to you, chances are you’re dating a player.

7. He never wants to spend time with you on the weekends

If every time you hang out with this guys is on weekdays and he’s always too busy on the weekends, that’s because for a player the weekends are the days he goes after new victims. He’s not going to waste valuable weekend time with you when he can be out there meeting new girls that will eventually be next in line after (or while) he’s done with you.

8. Never spends major holidays with you

This is a given sign the guy you’re dating is a player. He’ll never spend time with you on major holidays because that means he will have to spend money or take you out and he’s not interested I doing that. He only wants to get laid, hit it and quit it, do the freak nasty, sink the sailor, lay pipe, you get the idea.

9. All the activities you ever do involves drinking

When you hang out with a guy if all you ever do is drink together or activities which include alcohol that’s because the more liquored up you get a girl, the greater chance she’ll give it up. It’s a simple formula that all players are familiar with and it’s proven to work.

10. He suddenly dumps you

Finally if he suddenly dumps you and you didn’t even see it coming is because he’s good. So good that he had you fooled into believing you were special, and once he got tired of you and got what he wanted he got rid of you. He moved on to his next victim and that’s it. So, if you were ever inexplicably dumped by someone know you know why, you were dating a player the whole time.

But don’t be discourage is you’ve been a victim of a player. Learn from your experience and don’t make the same mistake again in the future. There are some good man out there.

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  • Annabel, Get In The Hot Spot

    Brilliant list, sometimes love makes you blind and you don’t believe the signs because you don’t want to. Hearing them from someone else is a definite call to action so thank you for sharing this. Great to hear it from an honest guy too:)

  • The Last Honest Guy

    You’re right about love making you blind. Later you realize it and just think back and feel so stupid for not seeing all the obvious signs…

  • Kini

    Hey there sweetie, let’s not forget that that list may also apply to “10 signs the GAL you’re dating is a player.” I think I’ve got to draft up my list now.

    But that was great stuff.

    Thank you

  • The Last Honest Guy

    You’re right. We live in an age where even women are “Players” now. My list can definitely apply to women as well, except for maybe #9. women don’t have to do that.. haha…

  • Dino Dogan

    also…phone-off (or set to silent) – 10 signs the guy you’re dating is a player

  • The Last Honest Guy

    I guess that would be the other end of Sign #2. If the guy your dating doesn’t answer his phone is because he’s with the another chick and has set his phone to silent….

  • Aliceinmind

    Amusing, I think the list above is for the amateur males, the best clue he NEVER invites you to his place. However if you bore easily in a relationship theses guys are a entertaining. Then again, women are much more savvy, some of us let them think they’re getting away with it 😉

  • The Last Honest Guy

    The bad news for the women that “let them think they’re getting away with it” is that players don’t really care if you know about it or get mad, as long as you keep on giving it up to them it’s all good. Actually Ideal…

  • Aliceinmind

    Yes, bad for the women who don’t know what they are getting into, I agree. For those who know. Another thing I noticed players also don’t like to be played, Men can get ugly. LOL

    This is great dialog.

  • The Last Honest Guy

    That’s so true. It’s probably because it must feel even worse to get beat at your own game…

  • Aliceinmind


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